Sunday, November 2, 2014

Answers to Prayers in Myrtle Beach

I was beginning to question myself.  Well, it's not the first time and it's not always just me.  Matt and I both wonder sometimes if we are doing the right thing...for our kids, for Matt or myself.  We should be happy every day doing what we are doing, right?  We are on this trip, traveling with our amazing kids, seeing great places and I feel......dissatisfied, even unhappy, maybe slightly depressed.  How can that be????  How can I feel this way when clearly I know how good life is.  As exciting and changing as each day is, I realized that spiritually, I was beginning to crumble.  We had been seeking a Sunday routine of watching some DVD's from church, but had run out of those, and I just hadn't found any resources that kept all of our interest at different age levels. We haven't been to church in nearly 3 months.  I felt depleted.  With others praying for us, and myself jumping in that plea, I soon found answers.  And, I'm telling you, answers so clear, they smacked me in the face.  Our strange neighbor at our park in North Myrtle Beach (who began to hide his puppy from Elise) directed me to an RV camp that was ocean front.  I couldn't remember the name, but found a different "family RV park" right next to the one he mentioned.  Had we gone to his recommended one, we'd have not had the experience we had.  Coincidence? 

Nah. 

We end up at this amazing ocean front park that, during peak summer time, is PACKED with 1500 campers.  We are in the wonderful off season.  Not only was it full of recreational opportunities, but it was a Christian family run park. Coincidence? 

Absolutely not. 

Within an hour of arriving, I biked past a vendor who had Christian music blaring from the speakers.  It gave me chills.  That night we ate from "Montana Fish and Chips" (that same food vendor) at a table on the sand, listening to contemporary worship and Matt and I looked at each other smiling with relief.  It was like God was sitting there with us, saying, "You asked, I answered."  We attended a convicting and fantastic church service that was 15 feet from our camp site in an amphitheater on Sunday morning.  A wonderful pastor, his wife and 21 year old son (a one family show) blew us away with a timely and meaningful morning of pure praise and Truth from the Word. I began to realize that my dissatisfaction was stemming (again) from my selfish nature.  Letting my eyes drift from a purpose filled life to my own wants and needs. 

We don't always know what specific purposes lie in wait, but that's the beauty in this unpredictable life. 

Our three nights turned into seven and then eight.  Our days were filled with blessings that were so blaring, we could not deny God's hand; swimming in His warm ocean waters, playing football in the surf in the light of His moon, sliding at the fully staffed but empty waterpark, daily peddle boats and miniature golf, but mostly, meeting new and wonderful families at each place that encouraged our souls.  We also met others who needed our encouragement.  Our kids met new friends, Matt and I invited people into our space, and we were humbly reminded that the universe does not revolve around us.  Our awesome Lord uses people, (thank God for pastors), new friends, exemplary marriages, elderly wisdom and even music to speak truth that can change even a hardened heart.  We got a healthy dose of all of these at different times.  I know that discontentment will once again rear it's ugly head, but I hope to starve it off with a good dose of humility and thankfulness for a God who has given me all I need.

Tanner's creativity at the beach

One of my favorite shots

Calleigh (from Summerville, SC) and Elise enjoy making caramel apples

Our daily view of the waterpark.  Helped move school work along well.

From the top of the waterpark overlooking camp and the beach.

Chilly water....oh well.  This was us nearly EVERY day we were there

Two six year olds minus some teeth
Brooklyn and Bradlee, new friends from Greenwood, SC

 Brooklyn, who we met our last two days.  Elise and she were buddies for Halloween
All ready for Halloween
We found a great neighborhood for all the kids to trick or treat in and they scored 200 pieces of candy each.  We dragged them home only to crash soundly.  In the morning, Matt negotiated a deal with each of them to buy back 100 pieces.  Our budget minded children, took the deal. 
 

The day we left our favorite campground, it was pouring rain. 

Here we come Charleston......




7 comments:

  1. I absolutely love these last two posts. Truly honest, real, and reaching from the heart. You know we all miss and love you. But, this experience, this amazing journey, has absolutely inspired us. We have already begun planning our east coast adventure. We will be seeking all of your worldly advice as seasoned travelers. And, maybe hit you up for Aunt Debby's contact info. :) I can certainly understand your ache of missing those who miss you. But, we're all here. We'll all be here. As the great Chuck Swindle said, "Enjoy the days before you. Don't endure." Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy. These days will be gone in a moment. So, make your memories and share them all with us! We love you.

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    1. You guys will LOVE this East coast trip and Aunt Debbie is a MUST see! She is meeting us in Florida next week and my kids are counting the days down. Can't wait to spend time with our families soon on our own adventure! :)

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    2. My kids are beyond sad we will not be at DW with you. And, even Aunt Debby will be there. Soooo fun! Yes, we will make our own adventures soon soon. :)

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  2. Thank you for sharing your heart with us (and all of those beautiful photos). We love you and miss you! I can so relate to that need for fellowship and encouragement on the road--but we were not even gone a WEEK when I found myself feeling like a fish out of water....Hudson had been throwing up the first 5 days of our Prescott trip and I was drained. We were in Costco one day and a lady gave Josh a flyer about a worship concert downtown. We decided to go even though Hudson was still sick. God knew just what we needed--no coincidence. I love that when we cry-out to Him, He always shows-up-- BIG. Not that He is not always present, but that He makes Himself so real and so available to us!! Such a beautiful account of how He showed-up in a big way for you and your family this week! XO

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    1. Ah, my cheering squad! I love you girls. It's all true. It's such a vital part of my being now. Physical, mental and SPIRITUAL health.....when one part is out of whack, it throws me all off kilter. I realized that no matter what our goals for this trip was (and I had to revisit those reasons), if our kids (and we) were not growing towards being more purposeful in our "pay it forward" attitudes towards anyone we meet, then we were failing. And without some kind of daily way of practicing that, or at least feeding our souls full of His direction, we were beginning to crumble. What a boost it was to be surrounded for a whole week! You're right, Mari, He shows up BIG! And, Nic, how I'd love to listen to Chuck one day! :) Luckily, I have you to fill in the gaps. Adore you girls!

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  3. When you have a solid Internet connection, your can listen to Chuck through his Insight For Living radio program. I'm sure it's all online. That show was our church for many years.

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